Hi
@dboy, I just wanted to make a little note for anyone who is reading this - CBT isn't really about trying to make someone "happy in a messed up world." It's more about changing a thought like, "I'm miserable with tinnitus and I will never be happy again now that I have tinnitus." (a thought I was having when I first got T) into, "Many people have habituated before me and my tinnitus may still go away, other people have had a hard time with T and now feel pretty good. I can possibly get there, too." Just looking at things more openly gave me a lot of peace almost instantly. It didn't mean tinnitus didn't suck, but it got me out of my circular crappy thought loop. Eventually things did get better and my reality changed.
In that case, I was having distorted thinking - it doesn't invalidate the experience the person is having, it's more about also allowing for other (hopefully better) possibilities and points of view instead of catastrophizing (and other forms of distorted though processes.)
I don't think any CBT therapist out there is going to convince anyone that T is a great thing, I would put it in the category of not great things objectively (ha ha), but I also wouldn't be able to say, at present, that it is horrible for me, now. Hopefully someone else could look at that and change a though process from, "T is really horrible and my spike today is really making me feel bad." to, "T is really bad for me today, but maybe in a year it won't feel so horrible, even though it's not a fun condition. This random person on the internet, awbw8, had a transformation, so maybe it can happen for me, too." Just that little change can turn a really bad moment into a moment with just a smidge of hope and positivity, that's not much, but it's a step.
That's my understanding/experience from the little CBT I did back when my T started. Just wanted to share. I really think CBT can be helpful for anyone (not just those with tinnitus). It's not a cure, but it does make you more conscious of your thought patterns, which I humbly think is good.